Thursday, March 24, 2011

Thank God for Daycare

Wow, so strep. throat sucks. This is the first time I've ever had it and I didn't realize how long it can kick your butt for. I've been sick for about two weeks now and today my voice finally sounds closer to normal and I can swallow without wincing. You can probably imagine why I've lost five pounds.

This couldn't have been a better time for Foster to start full time day care too. With me being sick and very tired Foster could go play and make messes to his heart's content while I lay on the couch with my lemon tea. I was going to feel guilty if he cried and clung to me when I drop him off. No need. As soon as he wakes up he's ready to go. And when I drop him off he gives me a big hug and kiss and says "bye bye" running off to play with his new friends. He loves it! The only problem we are having is his lack of sleep during their nap time. He's not use to napping on a mat surrounded by all kinds of fun things to do. Which makes for a very cranky toddler in the evening. I'm sure he'll fall into the routine after a couple of weeks though.

This is also a good time for Foster to start day care since him and Bailey completely torture each other every minute they are together. For the two hours in the morning we are getting ready and having breakfast they scream and hit and fight with each other. I think it's more torture for me. This morning Foster let all his aggression out on the dog. He's been spending a lot time in the time-out chair for hitting lately. He also misses his daddy who has been gone all week. He asks for him every morning and every evening at dinner. "Daddy?" I think we are hitting the "terrible two's" phase. I hope this is the worst of it anyway. He's so funny and spirited though, it's hard to stay mad. He's my little firecracker. I also have more Bailey time in the morning to give her the one on one attention she has needed. Yesterday we went to Starbucks and had doughnuts and drinks. I just let her talk for half an hour while I actively listened with no distractions. It was so pleasant and a memory I'll cherish. I hope she remembers that moment. I'm looking forward to more moments like that.

1 comment:

  1. What an amazing time with Bailey. I'm sure you will get more and more time and energy for them. I think nothing is more important to kids than those moments, even if they don't consciously remember them. I'm not surprised about Foster's reaction to daycare - I bet he was ready for some holy terrors, I mean friends. I felt so bad for you when I heard you had strep. It's awful to get it as an adult, so I hear. I've only had it as a kid but I had it a few times every winter and I truly wanted to cut off my head so my throat wouldn't hurt anymore.

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